Jim's Words Page
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Sunday, February 11, 2007
1. Date Night. In a serious relationship there needs to be 2 nights set aside. Day one should be a boy's / girl's night out. You go out with your girls and I go out with my boys. Day two is our night. We go out, no other friends or family. Just the 2 of us and spend quality time together. This does not mean spending lots of money, could just be a walk on the beach, a picnic or what ever we desire.
2. Equality in a relationship. To me both man and woman should be equal. This means that if I work 40 hours a week and you work 40 hours a week then the house stuff, ie cooking, cleaning, laundry should be split in half. If one of us only worked 20 hours a week and went to school for 10 hours a week then that person would be responsible for 10 more hours of stuff so cleaning, cooking and such.
3. Toilet seat. If there are more men then woman then
the seat stays up, if there are more woman then men it stays down. If the
number is equal then it stays where it last was. Ok so I do put it down 99%
of the time but I still like this one even though I don't even follow it.
All woman are evil but that is ok because men are stupid.
Hind site is not 20/20. If you were to go back and change that mistake you would not be where or who you are today, therefore if it is changed you would not be looking back and saying I should have done it this way at this moment. You could be saying it in your alternate choice.
As long as you learn something from a mistake you cannot regret it.
They say thing happen for a reason and I think I am starting to understand. I do wish I knew the reason so I could understand why they happen.
I was having a hard time and I was given a very special person to help me though it and I am thankful.
When the weather is nice get out and enjoy it, you never know how many more nice days you will have.
"I wanna be
there for you
Someone you can come to
Runs deeper than my bones
I wanna be there for you
I wanna be there for you"
There for You by Flyleaf
Life is short, don't wait around for things to happen, either move on or make them happen.
There is such a thing as being too nice. I am one of those and it has just caused me nothing but problems.
Very soon a decision is going to be made. One is divorce, the other is to work on the marriage and make it work. Who will make that decision ... it is yet to be decided but if not done soon I am going to have to get papers. I don't really want to but there are some things in life that you need to do to look out for yourself so that you don't go crazy.
Don't take thing for granted, because you will loose whatever is close to you
One can only hope Love will find the way
The hardest thing in the World is loosing someone very close to you, It may be me
Don't get distracted in life, keep an eye out for signs so you can prevent bad things from happening, like they did to me.
Life is a Bitch, then you DIE, death sounds good.
I though I was broken before, but the broken pieces just broke into smaller pieces
When life beats you with a stick, 2x4, 4x4, hammer, I beam, and a ton of cement, then it flushes you down the toilet and drops you into a black hole, the only way to go is to PRAY to GOD, he IS your only FRIEND.
Never forget how to be Romantic, if you do your Wife will leave you.
Cleaning ... Once you finish you have to start again
When it seems like you can stand up, life throws you a curve.
Some of the finer things in life seem so far away.
When you try and try and they don't listen, just give up and move on.
When you feel broken keep your loved ones close to you because they will help you through it.
Sometimes you need a vacation to keep you from breaking, I need a vacation.
I can fix most things, but I cannot fix this.
The Human body can only take so much till you just feel broken.
Some times you just need to break down to feel better.
Just when things seem to be going great, something bad happens.
Life is a mystery, so enjoy it while you can.
Life is short but the road is long.
In life you are screwed in what ever you do, it just depends if you enjoy it or not.
Life is full of surprises, some good some bad. This is when you find out who really cares for you.